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my mother

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 my  mother's love is  something which i cannot explain  it is  made of deep devotion and sacrifice and pain my mother is a special  one with whom my thoughts remain. through my life of joy and strife i will always remember her over again where ever she is up there. i still cry and become hopeless whenever i think of her the pain of not having her around, her shouting at me, not having to buy you  birthday gifts and mother's day gift. despite our distance i know you are up there looking after me  and i will work hard to make myself and you proud. RIP MOMπŸ˜”

Cyber bullying and safety

 

MY FAVORITE JUNK FOOD

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  Looking at all these richly colored pictured of yummy food is torture πŸ˜­πŸ’” and we all know how unhealthy they are but yet the temptation is so strong that you tend to give  in .let mcae share some of my favorite  junk foodπŸ’“πŸ’“............. 1. Candy 🍬 2. Spicy popcorn 🍿 3. Meat pie πŸ› 4. Chicken πŸ— 5. BurgerπŸ” 6. Pizza πŸ• 7. Doritos 8. Russian and chips 🍟 9. Coca colaπŸ₯€ πŸ˜‹πŸ˜‹πŸ˜‹πŸ˜‹πŸ˜‹πŸ˜‹πŸ˜‹πŸ˜‹πŸ˜‹πŸ˜‹πŸ˜‹πŸ˜‹πŸ˜‹πŸ˜‹πŸ˜‹πŸ˜‹πŸ˜‹πŸ˜‹πŸ˜‹πŸ˜‹πŸ˜‹πŸ˜‹πŸ˜‹πŸ˜‹πŸ˜‹πŸ˜‹πŸ˜‹πŸ˜‹πŸ˜‹πŸ˜‹πŸ˜‹πŸ˜‹πŸ˜‹πŸ˜‹❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

effects of GBV and possible solutions

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Since the beginning of creation  women have been the fabric of human existence. yet unfortunately they have been subjected to discrimination, endured different forms of abuse, and their human rights have been violated on a daily basis. Gender-violence has significant impact at  the individual, with victims suffering from physical and mental effects and greater societal impacts just to mention a few. The effects of GBV and consequence of violence against women last for generations. Children who witness domestic violence are at increased risks of going through anxiety, depression, low-self esteem and poor school performance, among  other problems that harm their wellbeing and their development as children. Exposure to violence increases the risk of poorer mental health. The following are some of the effects of GBV: Psychological trauma  The damage caused by psychological abuse is often visible but resulting trauma can be far more devastating than that resulting from ph...

Gender based violence

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Gender-based violence (GBV) is a violence that is directed at an individual based on his or her biological sex or gender identity. It includes physical, sexual,verbal,emotional, and pyschological abuse. Gender-based violence can be in the form of: * Child marriage * trafficking for sex or slavery  * Female genital  mutilation * Honour killings * partner violence * Sexual,emotional or physical violence  A day hardly go by  without news pertaining gender violence. We live in a sick and broken Society where gender base violence has become a daily topic.  In most cases it seems to be mostly perpetrated by men against women. There are a lot of factors that contribute to gender-based violence in our Society. 1. culture - cultural  norms includes misplaced belief that men are stronger and superior to women. women are seen as assets and that men owe them and can do what they want to do with them. 2. Alcohol -when a men is drunk he unashamedly violate women both phy...

Important questions to ask on a first date 😍❤️🌹🌈

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  When you think of the words first date, I bet we all smile or cringe. First dates can be awkward, exciting, wonderful, nerve wracking, disastrous, you name it. During a first date what really matters is the first impression you each give each other. Please avoid topics like religion, politics and homophobical. I think the most important questions to ask on a first date are about priorities and values. It's doesn't have to be serious series of questions or that might be a huge turn off 😬. Here are some questions that you can ask on a first date πŸ€—πŸ€— 1. What do you like to do in your free time? 2. Are you more of an indoors or outdoors person? 3. Who is the most fascinating person you’ve met? 4. What was the last book you really got into? 5. What are some movies you really enjoyed? 6. What amazing adventures have you been on? 7. What pets have you had 8. What’s your favorite alcoholic and non-alcoholic drink? 9. What are you kind of obsessed with these days? 10. Where have yo...

Urinary tract infection ( UTI)πŸ‘

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  What is a Urinary track infection? A Urinary track infection (UTI) is an infection in any part of your Urinary system, Kidneys, Ureters, bladder and urethra. Most infections involve the lower urinary tract which is the bladder and urethra, Women are at greater risk of  developing a UTI than men. Infection limited to your bladder can be painful πŸ˜·πŸ˜”. If a UTI spread to your kidneys it cause serious consequences.   Symptoms of a UTI *  A strong, persistent urge to urinate * A burning sensation when urinating  * Passing frequent, small amounts of urine *Urine that appears cloudy * Strong smelling urine *Urine that appears red, bright pink or coca cola color * Pain around your lower back Causes of UTI UTI  typically occur when bacteria enter the urinary tract through the Urethra and begin to multiply in the bladder.  Risk factors * Female anatomy, a woman has a shorter Urethra than a man, which shortens the distance that bacteria must travel to reach the...

Audi lover 😍❤️πŸŒˆπŸ”

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  I have a huge obsession when it comes to Audis, there's just something unique about the 4rings and if I was to get my first car I would love it to be an Audi 😍😍❤️. Let's talk about  Audi RS7πŸ˜πŸ€— This baby comes extremely well equipped with things such as all wheel drive, four-wheel steering, and an adjustable air suspension system. For maximum madness, consider the Black Optics package which adds darkened exterior trim and giant 22-inch wheels😍❤️ Every RS7 is equipped with a snazzy infotainment system that operates via two touchscreens that seamlessly blend into the upper dashboard and flowing center console I can already imagine myself listening to loud music after work πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚ just release some stress 😁. The Audi RS7 comes from a twin- turbo 4.0 liter V-8 that pairs with a 48-vilt hybrid system, eight speed automatic transmission and all wheel drive😍😒❤️. This baby makes 591 horsepower and 590 lb-ft of torque it runs 62 mph in 3.6 seconds πŸ€—πŸ˜πŸ€­

How human trafficking victims are recruited πŸ˜’πŸ’”

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  1. Offering you a job They promise to give you your dream job outside the country and they offer for what you need. They create fake modelling agencies and recruit thier victims and promise them a good flashy lifestyle and a good modelling gigs outside the country. The reality when their victims arrive they are forced to become mules ( someone that transport drugs) and transport illegal drugs. In most cases their victims have no choice as they are stranded in a foreign country with no means of survival. 2. They promise to cater for your stay abroad They sell their victims dreams and pay for their  expenses. Finally when their victims are there,they are forced to pay back as they have debts to pay that is impossible to repay and their victims can't leave. In most cases they take their victim's passports to ensure that they do what they want them to do, without them having to leave. 3. Pretending to be In love This is the most famous trick ever. They pursue you romantically an...

My favorite person part 1🌈πŸ₯€

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Many people have come and gone in my life, but there's is one that I recently meet and he's my favorite 😍. We meet at a chill session that I went to with a friend, he was friendly and all smiles and I guess that's what got me feeling some type of way πŸ˜‰. He's super friendly and cracks jokes here and there πŸ˜‚ plus he gat an adorable face πŸ™ˆ (not that I'm being weird but it's true) πŸ˜‚. After a  couple of drinks my friend and I had to bounce 😒 kinda felt bad because I was getting comfortable with the vibe and energy there. I got home without getting his number eish πŸ’”πŸ’”πŸ˜­ but immediately I texted my friend to get me his number because she was closer to one of his friend.  To cut the story short I finally got his number and we started chatting and hanging out, he's such a whole vibe. I like the  way he gives me attention,talks to me bully and make fun of me in a cute way πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚ actually it's kinda our thing where we just tease each other πŸ˜πŸ™ˆ. This was  ju...

5 lessons that I learnt from Barack Obama πŸ™‚

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 1. If you can dream it, you can do it. My own explanation: to me "you can do it" means that through reality I can make or accomplish whatever my heart desires and that dreams will forever be dreams if no action is acted on them πŸ™‚ 2. A poor background doesn't mean failure. My own explanation: I have seen people from poor background who succeeded. However irrespective of our background we can either fail or succeed, at the end of the day it all depends on ones ability, ambition and determination towards succeeding ✔️ 3. If you want to be somebody, you need to have goals. My own explanation: setting goals is important. Setting goals help guide us, build a focus on a particular thing and  help us sustain that momentum in life.πŸ€— 4. Hard work always pays off My own explanation: to me this is the simplest way I get put it in, when you work really hard you get to reap great results from all the effort you have invested in something.πŸ˜‰ 5. Believe in yourself even if no one else...

My perfect date ❤️πŸ₯€πŸŒˆ

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  My perfect date  has nothing to do with where. It's just a matter of how well we are able to communicate and get to know each other. Typically loud places won't do. Roses 🌹 and chocolate 🍫 are romantic but I really don't need extra stuff just to impress me. Things like expensive places are just too much, as a matter of fact the simpler it is the easier and more comfortable it becomes for us to connect and really get to know each other 😍🀭. More eye contact and talking  😍🀭. A perfect date for me is the one that facilitate intimate conservation, which is just want I crave for . Something like staying in and watching a movie together with our favorite snacks ❤️πŸ” *****************END********************

Date rape πŸ˜’πŸ’”

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  In most cases when we think about date rapes we think of strangers spiking our drinks and taking advantage of us,but it's not only strangers who rape.About half of all people who are raped know the person who attacked them. Date rape/acquaintance rape is forced sex between two people who already know each other. Date rape most often happens to females, but males can be raped too. Date rapes happen when someone spike your drink and they become unaware of what is going on around you. SAFETY TIPS☑️☑️ 1. Stay sober and aware, especially around people they don't know very well. 2. Do not  drink something that has been poured for you at a party or gathering unless you can see it being prepared . 3. Don't spend time alone with someone who makes them feel unease or uncomfortable. 4 . Be clear about what kind of relationship you want with another person. 5. Never leave your drink, always have it with you, even when visiting the bathroom. *******************END*********************...